I hate both my parents, but im not happy to be in foster. My dad is a rapist, manipulator, abuser in all ways (financial, emotional, sexual, and physical), entitled to things my mom pays for like the car, house, phone bills, clothes and even cable and internet. My mom is a manipulator, abuser in all ways like my dad, and is a "professional" gaslighter. Everytime we talk about our bad experiences that she doesnt do anything about, she makes it about her by saying, "Well, you should be grateful that I didnt kill myself or you kids" YOU SHOULDNT SAY THAT TO MY YOUNGER SIBLINGS OR YOUR KIDS IN GENERAL!! What got us in foster is that she tried killing us while she was half drunk and AWARE of her actions. She's still like that, just sober and still threatening to kill us or herself for not getting ciggs for cope. Our foster parent is very contradicting, like she'd say "No groceries for two months! We got enough food now" and then they go to Talkeetna AK, buy things or go to restaurants...