I'm gonna say this with all due respect, how is it that when you try and get to know a lovely lady, you treat them nice and respectful, not cause any types of trouble when speaking to them, and maybe make plans that's flexible and convenient to them to make that next step - they bin you off like you're last week's rubbish. This is no disrespect to anyone on here who's from the UK (or even globally), but anyone who is on a dating website or on the socials, if you're gonna be on these sites or looking for love in your life and willing to give someone a shot, give them a fair shot without messing them about. If it don't work out or they are not the type you're looking for, be honest and respectful, not ditch them without notice, make it feels like a waste of time and puts yourself in the wrong spotlight. If you have stuff going on in life, that's fine, but just be considerate of that other person. It's not hard to show a bit of respect to someone who's given you the time of day.