it saddens me how many young people are so caught up in their lgbtqia+ and miscellaneous identities nowadays. labels are so mainstream now that it's stifling. love is love and nobody can tell you that you aren't a boy, girl, whatever you want. but why are you so caught up with finding the ever so specific 50 labels that apply to you and getting pissed off when someone dares to get one wrong when you're barely past your double digits? nothing can be a hobby anymore. you can't pretend to be a wolf, you have to be a therian. you can't relate to a character, you have to kin them. you can't just not be interested in relationships, you have to be aromantic. you're alienating people who don't do all this shit from society even further. people assume that just because i like girls that means i'm a super mega radqueer who is also trans and has a trillion pronouns. and trans surgery. if the queer community is so adamant on defying social norms, why are you getting surgery to fit into that norm?