Everyone defends the person that was SA, but what if they cheated on the person? Would it become fair? Did they deserve to get SA? Bc l did. Yes l cheated on my ex when l was 13-14. We broke up on and off but in order for him to trust me or forgive me l needed to do things with him. I didnt know how wrong that is but l can never tell anyone abt this. He SA me for 2 yrs but l cheated on him. Does it change things? Did l deserve that bc of what l did? Idk. No one will listen to the cheater abt her side. Even if im open abt what l did l have no proof except the memories of being forced and thought that was love.