My husband pushes back on me on every fucking thing I do and is such a contrarian, which I could handle, if he did anything. I put in all the work and all he does is criticize my efforts. I’m so fucking tired of fending off his disdain and just want to be fucking appreciated. I do everything for us. My therapist made a good point that he doesn’t seem like he wants to grow up. Not only do I make more money, I do 90% of the work around the house and plan all of our trips. He’s told me he doesn’t want to have kids because it would disrupt our lifestyle. Well my lifestyle is basically like already having a kid. I’m so tired.