why is it that if my mums bf makes a comment abt me n I get unhappy its my fault but if I make a comment or try to defend myself its also my fault??????????? mind u when my sister said the bf told her (sis) that I was gonna grow up to be fat as hell cus of how I eat (I'm the lightest, not the shortest, not the youngest in the house, everyone else is overweight like hell so if they're jealous abt how much I eat without gaining so much weight why don't they watch what they eat not what I eat) n I told my mum he was talking shit behind my back, she js said :"are you just ranting or do you expect me to do something about it?" in that tone she always uses when its obvious she wasn't gonna do jackshit like why bro