My friend is about to be kicked out of the room he's renting. He doesn't have a job, he has a dog that his friend left him. I offered a room in a 3 room apartment where I'm renting of the rooms. He agreed, said he's 100% sure he wants it. Didn't respond to my messages for a week or two, I got worried. I spammed messages to him today and he finally responded, he says he feels like shit and not like himself at all, he's mentally in a bad place and trying to get money, and the room that I offered him is his only option or he's gonna live in the streets. I need to give my landlord an answer tomorrow if he's taking the room or not. He did bail on me about 2 months ago when a different room was empty. I'm scared he's gonna do it again, and the landlord wants to get a complete stranger into the free room. When that happened before, the guy turned out to be a 50 year old creep. Since then, I'm finding roommates myself. Hope he's not gonna bail this time, but I'm scared sh*tless

Why won't he make a move? I know that he likes me too...

Been dealing with my spouses depression for years. I love them but i’m running out of compassion for it. I’m exhausted. I always have to put my feelings in the background. They don’t do anything to get better but then complain bb about having no help. They make steps but it isn’t instant and they stop. I feel like an unpaid therapist who can’t clock out. I can’t even tell them or set boundary about it because then they’ll clam up and say they have no one to talk to or who understands them. But I’m exhausted and running to the point where I just don’t even care any more. It’s like I have to deal with the radio station playing their depression and I have to sit in the misery with her. I want to just scream to shut up but then that would ruin our trust