Why does it always feel like no one thinks of how things will affect me. I’m asd & adhd diagnosed at 38 3 kids and partner also all asd & adhd. (Just little back history we struggle a lot) So my current frustration is that I tried to help my niece who I also believe is asd & adhd but waiting times are so long so I said about paying private for her at £1300 my mum said she would pay half at end of May so I’m not paying it all. End of May comes she don’t have the money so I’ve said ok she said she will pay end of June. I will add she’s got money in savings she just don’t want to get less interest. So end of June now here and she’s messaging to say she won’t be paying it as nieces mums being a pain in the bum and has only managed to do one of the appointments so far. She said if the appointments get completed then she will send me her half. So I’ve had to front the whole £1300 and risk loosing the lot which isn’t what She agreed why do ppl do this to me? I don’t have savings!