Part 2 about 1 sidedness: so I was blocked and ignored by them we when they knew I was in an abusive situation. But when they "claimed" to have been abused by an ex (no visible marks whatsoever and they would've been in jail yet their ex wasn't) it was all boo hoo hoo they did such and such to me. But them wanted sympathy for themselves gave me the fuckin middle finger who was actually harmed and acted like it was nothing. They also left me out of stuff because they hated me yet they themselves whined about being left out of going on a trip by their own kids. Oh sure it's just fine to be shitty to one person, as long as it doesn't happen to you. That's one example how fucked up my family is. On top of them whining about their partner relationships to us yet said "I'm blocking you because I don't want in the middle of your business".... WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK?!. Well don't blurt out yours to us then. With love like that who needs enemies smh