I'm so sick of males thinking they have any right to pass any judgements on our (females) emotions. In the first place, they know nothing about their own emotions, better yet ours. And of theirs, they on'y seem to be in touch with angry, negative ones! Here's the problem: they think, erroneously, the bigger and stronger means smarter. It does not. Bigger and stronger means, only, bigger and stronger. In this comfortable, albeit self-appointed, position of bigger, stronger and smarter than 52% of the population, they decide they are going to be judges of everyone's emotions. They will determine if our feelings, opinions, etc. are appropriate in all situations, including ones they know nothing about (child-birth, menstruation, etc.). That's where such phrases as "you're over-reacting" come from. I missed the day they decided that one of them would be the official determiner of everyone's reactions. NO-ONE has that right. Ever had one of those idiots tell you to calm down? Rrr