My fiancé is so lazy. I'm a CNA at the hospital where I live, and I work long hours for crap pay. He, on the other hand, is a lumber hand who builds lumber orders and stacks things with the mighty forklift. He gets home hours before I do, but when I come home at one o'clock in the morning, nothing is done. Our driveway is full of trash because he refuses to take it out, our porch is filled with his empty promises and never-ending, never-finished projects. Even our dog's crate is disgusting. It's not even that hard to clean the house. I have a Roomba that does the floors, I do the laundry, meal planning, grocery shopping, dishes, dusting, basically, if it's clean and looks put together, you can assume I did it. I just want a partner who understands that a clean home means a clean mind. I can't function if my safe space is a disaster, let alone ignore it and go to bed as he does. It's like he thinks the house just magically runs itself and all will be well if he does nothing. Bullshit.