I feel like my parents only "love" me because its their responsibility not because they actually love me. If given the chance they'd always choose ways that are somewhat careless when it comes to their children. (Eg: I once sprained my ankle and they chose to ignore me the whole day and told put ice on it that's it they only started to care once my grandmother called them and scolded them for not caring) . Once they get a scolding from other people saying that they don't care about their children, They start blaming us ---the children for snitching or something. Idunno I think I'm overreacting. I didn't put all the examples here I just wanted to get this out of my chest