I am so tired of my husband or soon to be ex or whatever this stupid gray area is. I don’t know how to do this and I don’t want to and I’m stuck in this awful situation. He sleeps around and message god only knows how many women all the time, will admit to it but lie about it the next breath. Not to mention all the women he was with before we separated. But I’m given a hard time for having seen two men since our separation, one of which has been long term for years now. But the whole situation is messed up because we cannot live separately and afford to give our kids the lives they deserve. So we cohabitate, but it’s hard. He’s moody and makes us uncomfortable with his anger, but then denies that he’sangry and acts like I’m crazy. Then gets irate when I call out the gaslighting. He doesn’t want me to do certain things around the house to contribute, but then gets mad when I don’t. He’s short tempered with our kids, and then blows up at me for trying to keep the peace. It’s not working.