My father has an obnoxious habit of not bringing enough money when he goes here, and then he buys all this stuff using my mom’s credit card “for points” And so he mindlessly goes to the outlets buying everything his eye catches and then my mom gets upset when he goes overboard with the spending. And now my mom thinks my father is over the limit and her “own” money is being spent. By the way, when she got into an accident, she got 11,000 dollars and now she thinks it’s her money but I know she didn’t pay that much when she got the car that got totaled, it was my sister and me who paid most of it. And she’s claiming that it’s hers. The only reason why I’m not upset about it is because I don’t have to pay for a car anymore. But now she gets mad at me when I ask if I can buy something using his money.