my girlfriend and I right now only use our hands on eachother (fingering and handjobs) she’s just told me that she never wants to give me a blowjob because it would make her uncomfortable but she wants to because it’ll give me pleasure. she the says she doesn’t care about herself being comfortable and wants to do it for me but that’s not what I want. she had being saying she wanted to have sex beforehand but now is saying it was half because she’d rather that over a blowjob and half because she wanted to and I’m not sure how she truly feels or what to do