I also don't like it when people call others annoying because to the right people, an annoying person is fun. I think if you find someone annoying you should leave them alone and distance yourself. Don't even think about them or involve yourself in their life. If you're also annoying someone, you should also leave them alone, distance yourself, don't think about them or get involved in their life. That way you find your people and they find theirs. P.S. if you're having a hard time with the idea of different kinds of people co-existing without prejudice and punishment for who they are so much so that you're willing to get them ostracized or publicly shamed, well, there's quite a few cults ready and willing to take you in because while superficially you may differ, underneath it all, you think alike.