Random thoughts: I don't know ok. Not only my immediate family are a mess. My distant family I don't understand. Ok for starters why would distant relatives drive 500 miles come to my so called well to do popularity contest relative and bypass us? Then have audacity to after visiting at the other relatives house to bypass us go out for karaoke AND NOT EVEN INVITE US??! TF? like we're beneath them. They won't even wish me happy birthday openly they have to do it in a d.m. Me knowing their past the skeletons in their closet not known by most im willing to bet and they wanna act above us? I won't put the details but the ones isn't pretty that's for sure. They could of at least invited me/us. The other time they drove right by us and said to my aunt asking to stop to see us "rather not". OK THEN. apparently they won't even go to help my sickly other relatives they just say "I got my own life". How would they feel being treated that way? My family is beyond fucked up. I hate how they act.