Sometimes life feels so unfair. My husband lost his dad and I know he’s grieving and I know none of this is his fault. But we had agreed we were going to start trying for a baby and now everything is “idk” and “probably not this year.” I feel guilty even saying this because how do you complain when someone you love is hurting so deeply? But I’m hurting too. I’ve been waiting, hoping, planning my heart around this future, and it feels like life just moved the finish line again. I’m watching people around me get pregnant while I’m trying to be patient, understanding, supportive, strong… and honestly some days it just feels incredibly unfair. I don’t want to be resentful. I don’t want to pressure him. I just hate feeling like my dream got put on pause by something neither of us chose.