i don't like my partner's partner. i think he's pushy, bad about other people's boundaries, abrasive. starts arguments with strangers over nothing. needs my partner to take care of him but didn't visit my partner in the hospital at all. always making my partner go over there, all the way across town, despite my partner's disability and how this impacts things at home. needy and unhelpful. i wish they weren't together but I want my partner to be happy, and I guess this guy makes my partner happy for some reason. i think sometimes it would be easier if things weren't this way, but that would only make it easier for me i guess. and I want my partner to be happy.