Quick note: this references s/a, nothing explicit, just mentioning My grandfather died about two weeks ago, and my whole family has been very sad about it, as I'm sure normal people would feel. However, I hated that man. He did inappropriate things to me from about the age of 9-15 (when I stopped seeing him). He never ®ape d me, but he has made many, many inappropriate comments and has touched me. I don't know if this counts as s/a though, all he had done is fondle me. I don't know. I feel bad however because I haven't told my family about this, and I don't know if it should. They all seem so upset that he is gone, but I am kind of happy. He will never get to touch me like that again. Idk, I just want to know if I'm justified in not feeling upset about his death