If your sister is a mother of 4 and you’re a mother of one you don’t get to tell her how to raise her kids. She’s overwhelmed just juggling between the 4 of them even more now that they don’t want to behave themselves and are at an age where they should now what to do and what is right and wrong. Then here you come bring your mess ass kid over with her disobeying kids just so you could go on dates with your friends, fishing and hunting with your husband and drinking with your in laws. How dare you. Tell her we are to insensitive if they done what they needed to in the first place we wouldn’t have been insensitive. What’s so hard about school, what’s so hard about picking up after yourself, what’s so hard about taking a shower? Now you want to run away from home because it’s too “hard” if you done what you’re supposed to in the first place it wouldn’t have been so hard now you just have more work piled up. Go ahead and go let’s see you survive when you can’t even do the bare minimum.