My husband and I got into a fight because of our intimacy. I tried to initiate sex this morning, he made it awful by commenting on how he was supposed to know I was initiating sex when I have in the last few weeks. I have a low libido due to my meds. He has a high sex drive and wants it all the time. We have been together for 6 years, just got married in March. Our fight ended with no resolution and I don’t think it will have a resolution. He wants me to be more intimate, wants me to have sex or at least a blow job, more often. He wants me to service his needs. But when I speak up about my needs, what my intimacy triggers are, he shoots them down. How can I ask him to provide me with love, how can I ask him to make me feel wanted when he doesn’t know if I’m going to give him anything in return. And apparently no, just doing that isn’t a thing, there needs to be a return on his investment. He wants the girl he dated 6 years ago, not the girl he married.