i find the word “selfish” being used on me to be completely insulting. like me?? selfish??? i have sacrificed my own career to give you a better future, i have risked my health and energy for others, i have always volunteered to do things for others and in return, i have completely disregarded my own feelings, my own discomforts, my own thoughts. just so yall can feel good. 😒 maybe instead of calling me selfish, call yourself fucking grateful i kept you in mind enough to sacrifice myself for you!