frankly i dont really care atp if they were hurt, i showed some empathy to them and encouraged them to seek help, as im sure others did, and they doubled down. they have no empathy and would not give us kindness, and it is not our responsibility to try to be their therapist and teach them empathy and fix their trauma when they are being so cruel. our energy is better spent donating to and showing support for victims who are asking for help.