So this time of the year. This woman I was in love with ( on multiple occasions) turned me down ,that heartbreak had a negative effect on me...only to date these men ( on separate occasions) cheated her. Whenever they cheated on her and she learns of it. She comes to me crying , we talk, she gives me the whole GFE but we just friends treatment. Years later and a LDR later .. my ex ( who lied about not having kids and being a relationship... idk if I can call her an ex tbh) started doing this to me for 2 months, after I told her my story of being used for validation. Why insecure women do this? Why me? ? What have I done to deserve this? Then when I asked her what am I to her that this point. She says thats a complicated question that has a complicated answer... but it wasn't complicated 2 years of lying? Now this feeling is doubled and I am fighting back the tears...