I liked this guy two years ago. He still crosses my mind a lot but not very often since I am a busy person. He folllowed me on social media despite me not even knowing him.I wanted to get to know him for him but there were many red flags. People either warned me from him or convinced me to approach him and I did. Apparently he liked me. But when we texted he was distant. He took a whole day to respond to a question I asked him while he posted shirtless selfies of himself. I tried initiating more but I just stopped since he gave me dry responses. I ended up cutting it off and I’m frustrated because this happens everytime I talk to someone. They get to know me then they randomly get distant or just ghost me for days.this crosses my mind because it’s something I genuinely do not understand and I want to understand why people do this. I’m not focused on dating now but this really puzzles me.