I got an apartment with my older sister because during her last year of college she relapsed and cut herself. I have carried the burden of my sister's mental health since I was very young and believed if I could handle her when she was at home then I could handle her in college. So comes the end of highschool and I move in with my older sister. She doesn't care about college, does not care that she goes in for free because our parents pay for everything. She is failing her classes and my parents are so disappointed in her. Im disappointed in her. She was told by my parents if she fails one of her core classes again this semester she will be forced to drop out of college. Right now she is out getting high with her friends on a school night. Nothing will change with her it never will. I've been having these conversations with her since I was 12 years old and nothing has changed