I’m gonna start this out saying I love my husband, l really do, but I honestly feel like a single married mom like 98% of the time and it’s making me resent him. I understand he works and I stay at home with the kids but her NEVER does anything around here unless I ask him to. And even then. Half the time he does freaking do it, I end up doing it anyways. And he never takes initiative with the kids which just makes me so mad. I’m sitting here crying while I write this because I’m just so freaking frustrated. He’ll hear our baby cry and ignore it to scroll on his phone and say he didn’t hear the baby. Same with our toddler wanting with play with him or wanting to be held, he just ignores it and says he didn’t see or hear and I’ve almost lost it on him multiple times. I’ve tried to bring it up to him multiple times but it always ends in me feeling like the ass and just shutting down. I don’t know what to do anymore. He was amazing till we had kids and I don’t know what to do now.