Baby is teething and waking up more than usual crying in discomfort. I've shown my husband how to calm him down instantly more than once, he just refuses to do it. when his way doesn't work he blames me. It's midnight and I earned a dramatic sigh while also getting cursed at when I handed the baby back to him to try it my way. I know he's only refusing so that I'll feel like I HAVE to take the baby, and I'm taking away his options to weaponize his incompetence, and THAT'S why he's mad at me. But being cursed at by someone who 'loves you' still hurts.
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