*Trigger warning: SA* My family victim blamed me after I was SA’d. While explaining what happened, my mother and brother chime in saying I should’ve done this or that differently in those situations. I tell them I know now and not to victim blame and they say they’re not. I continue, but they start up again. I tell them that I will go home if they don’t stop. My brother says they’re not victim blaming and that I’m being sensitive. I gather my things and storm out. My mother calls saying to come back. I tell her that I’ll only come back if he says sorry. He says “I’m sorry IF you feel that way” and denies ever calling me sensitive. They all say I need to drop things for the sake of “keeping peace”. I talk to my aunt and she says she heard him say it too but said NOTHING and says it’s in the past. My family was more upset at me for calling them out than they were about my assault and willing chose to turn a blind eye rather than defend me. I no longer view them as family. I hate them.