man I wish folks were more comfortable with he/him lesbians or lesbians that don't identify with the usual she/her pronouns. It's always so awkward to explain that I (a lesbian, butch if you will) use he him bc I don't feel like a she. I love being strong and hairy and I love how men's clothes feel on me. I'm rlly boxy shaped too and I always feel weird dressing fem / in fem presenting outfits. I feel so much better presenting masc and being masc