I told my boyfriend that I love my mom more than him (we are currently dating for 6 months), he said that he has told others about me loving my mom more than him and the others consider it as a red flag. I love him alot, but my mom has been there for me since I was a child and her much of love and effort means so much to me it hurts. I feel like an awful partner for loving my mom more than my boyfriend because according to him, the way I put it out seemed threatening,, I have no other way on how to say that I love my mom more than anyone, including my boyfriend. I keep on messing up our relationship more than him and I don't want to be this kind of person anymore. I thought I have changed but I really didn't, have I.