my ex doesn't understand how breaking up works. like genuinely that has to be the only explanation for whatever he's doing. he's called me and yelled at me and then started crying about how stressed he is and then started punching his car and then I told him he needs someone to talk to (but not me) and he said it has to be me cause no one else knows smths going on with him. which its so obvious he's going through smth bc he's been skipping hangouts and acting depressed and leaving things early. he's so stressed all of the time and idk how to help bc im pretty sure he doesn't have feelings for me but still needs me in some way but im still in love with him and this emotional intimacy isn't helping me get over him. im really worried, but he needs a healthy way to express emotions. I guess if im the only one he can talk to ill be it for him bc were still friends but I feel like im literally just setting my healing process back. part of me hopes this means he loves me but ik that's false