I feel I'm unattractive and undesirable I've noticed a whole lot about how people treat me differently from my younger sister (we're around the same age and both girls in our late teens). My dad has been getting more and more overprotective of my sister ever since we hit puberty and has been getting worse as time passes, but has treated me mostly the same from when I was younger. This includes: not letting her go out as much but letting me (and calling me less often than her when I am out), making her change her outfit (I usually dress more "modestly" in general but when I'm not he only comments once or twice and stops after my mom defends me once...my mom rarely defends my sister's outfits when my dad has a problem with it), if I talk a lot with a boy there's no suspicion, but if she does it there is. On one hand I'm grateful that I have more freedom than her, b