all my boyfriend does is emotionally manipulate me, but i can’t bring myself to leave because my hapiness hinges on him. i’m drunk right now, and i have BPD so there is a definite chance that I am overreacting, but everytime i bring up something that hurts me, he doesn’t apologize sincerely. he just tries to justify his actions, and even before it gets to that point he gets annoyed at me because i’m not having as much fun as he is. his humor hinges on making people upset or uncomfortable, and i have told him many times that those type of jokes make me unstable, and i end up questioning our relationship. he reframes it, and persists that all he’s trying to do is have fun after a long day of work, and it’s fuck him if i ever feel hurt by his words.