For context I am in my 20s and my bf is too. We have officially been a couple for almost a month and today I decided to look at some adult content on twitter myself. Long story short I came across a video that looked exactly like him (same build, face, teeth since he is missing few, and hair). Worse is the women matched the description of his ex and when he told me about her he said they did it together on air mattress in the past. The video had an air mattress. Idk how to approach this conversation with him and if anything i am shocked because i thought this stuff was online in movies or shows. Seriously what are the odds? It was posted prior to us being a couple so i know he wasn’t cheating which is why I don’t think it’s right for me to bring it up. It just feels weird. Idk where to vent and tell this which is why I picked here