i told a guy who was courting me to stop for a bit and for us to js be friends. i odnt know whats wrong with me bt there ws one time where he js got quiet and it was probably somethign taht i did idek until now,, i asked him abut it he was js quiet. so i gave hmi space to cool down think stuff up, but eventually i ended up asking again after a few days,, i know he didnt ask for it bt i even anxiously wrote this long paragraph because he was kinda quiet irl which he usually isnt and it got me anxious, and he said was for me to not worry and he'll go back to normal soon. im probably so dramatic but that response js was off for me, somethiing was triggered in me and i got scared. we fixed it. he was normally talking and looked fine, but then the next he wasnt. it was confusing me and i js got scared. I kept thinking if im already like this when we're not even dating yet, what more when we do date? im wrong for it, but i think he deserves someone ttat doesnt think like me.