im 26, started talking to this guy online near me and he wanted to get me a gift (a "toy") because i was masturbating unsafely, and said he wasnt expecting anything back whatsoever and also that he was 43,, still met up with him we didnt do anything but i feel gross still because i realized hes just a chaser for trans ppl and that he isnt attracted to guys by default, he just wants to use me. and yet, its the only positive attention im getting ;_;