My partner is treating me so shit over the smallest things and it drives me up the wall. Our relationship is AMAZING, but there's one strain that's existed for most of it (asides the start, of course): them not knowing how to split time. My partner is so loved by all the people in their life, they just can't get enough of them. Their friends are prioritized more than me, most days. But I've come to get used to it and just intentionally make myself smaller until I'm interesting again. But, sometimes that doesn't work either. My partner has this almost constant urge to be in a group of people which obviously I, one person, cannot proivde. And, also to always be doing something fun and stimulating. Yet, when I offer to do things, they say "well, I don't ALWAYS want to do something." Oh, and, how come I just don't go with their friend group more? Well, their friend group is a bunch of nasty, immature, grossly edgy dudes who piss me off. But I can't tell my partner that and I'm hurting.