Brother- I am not sure exactly why we fell apart… We are brothers and I want an adult brother relationship. I know I can be controlling sometimes, and am working on that. You relied on mom for everything, and then mom suddenly died, when you relied on her for everything. Nobody was there to help you. And I think you won't accept help from anyone other than mom- who died almost 10 years ago… I said bad things about your girlfriend before Christmas 2021. I apologize. I was angry and said things I should not have said. I have tried to help you with many things - finances, and whatnot. You helped me with car issues and my ac and dryer a few years ago. Then at my wedding we fell apart. You said you would take a day off to help with setup. You did not. You refused to stay at my bachelor party. I wanted to spend time with my brother. You caused drama that got you kicked out of the wedding party. Now you won't talk to me. Are we brothers or just guys who lived in the same house?