I think people worry too much about saying if someone actually is fat. I keep seeing posts that r talking about insecurity or ranting about other people saying they are fat but in those posts the person writing it always says “but they aren’t fat, they r pretty!” Or “Fat is pretty.” Which I do agree, I love me some chubby people! But the thing is - it’s fine to worry for someone who actually is fat. I’m a child in middle school and some people in my grade are so big they need a mobile scooter. My friend, they r soooo sweet, but they are so big their hips broke and now they can not walk properly. 400 pounds at 11 isn’t something that should be brushed off bc “everyone is beautiful,” no, you should tell that person to try to get better.