I want to say things without being "cancelled" for being a narcissist. I do want to say that people I've known are only cutting themselves because they want attention since their friends do the same. "Narcissist!" "Attention seeker!" But what do they struggle with? One of them struggle with transphobia from their parents but has a supportive brother. I told him not to come out to his family if he wasn't prepared for the transphobia. The other person struggles because people bring up her past, because she sent death threats to people and encouraged EDs. 2 years ago. So, the friends of those people talk bad about her all the time. Why should they be harming themselves? Indeed, it is selfish. How many people I've met that go through hell and still cling to life, then the others who hurt themselves for their own consequences. Yes, this person is being selfish. I don't care what everyone tells me. I'm right, they're blind and busy defending people only because that's their friends.