is it cheating if my bf raped me, then broke up with me bc he thought i was going to break up with him so he did it before i could (i wasn't going to) but we didn't get back together offically and i slept with someone else? i didn't even like the other guy. the only reason i did it was because. well because he a s k e d. and i felt like my bf took that away from me. so when this other guy asked and was so nice and caring during sex (even the before) i said yes and gave it to him but me and my ex kept seeing each other regularly and would still tell each other we loved each other and he asked if there was anyone else and i said no but he found out i slept with someone else and he's saying that i cheated on him? when HE broke up with ME. i know it was wrong to lie about sleeping with the other guy but i wanna know if it was cheating