I hate how little empathy I have. I want to be a good friend but I just can't empathise I'm saying "I'm here for you" and "that sounds tough" while I'm thinking "omg are you actually a dumbass" and "give your damn head a wobble" He doesn't need someone to listen though, he needs a dose of reality tbh, he was raised by snobs and now thinks he's failing in life if he doesn't have the biggest house or newest car or whatever. And then moaning to me about it when I don't have either of those things (I don't want a car but it would be nice to move out of my parents' house before I turn 50).