How does one deal with an abuser who's also s so-called father, doesn't earn enough, only wants control, cheats on my mom, abuses us, doesn't want divorce but goes and does God knows what with other women below my mother's status, because he feels comfortable with the lowly maids not a not an independent working woman who sponsors him, and he abuses her if his mistress doesn't reply. I really pray the Lord takes him because we're so done with his abuse, he thinks he's the best father best husband he thinks he's doing everything he can for us, but genuinely just best for everyone if he goes as far as divinely possible, because he doesn't want us either so why force us