I found out about my asexuality while in my relationship but I tried to compromise with him. He wants sex multiple times a day but I shoot for only giving him sex once a day and our relationship is horrible. He threatens to cheat all the time. I've been trying to break up with him 4 times now because he NEEDS a woman who wants sex 5 times a day as once a day isn't enough for him but he refuses to let me break up with him insisting we should open our relationship. He's destroyed my self esteem to the point where seeing him sleep with other beautiful woman would make me even more suicidal. I refuse to do polygamy and am trying so hard to compromise with him but sex once a day isn't good enough for him. I'd truly be happy NEVER having sex ever again. 🙁