The Asian My best friend and I like the same people way too often, and somehow they usually end up choosing her. I can accept that because nobody owes me a crush. What hurts is that she knows when I liked someone first, knows when they bullied me, talked shit about me, or treated me badly, yet still chooses to be close with them. One guy talked badly about me right in front of her and she laughed along. Later, he treated HER badly, tried forcing a kiss on her while his friends watched, and apparently blackmailed her. We helped her leave him, but she went back and still acts like he’s amazing. He still talks shit about me, she hears it, and never defends me. I’m not asking her to avoid every guy I like. I just want basic loyalty. I’ve stopped telling her about my crushes bcuz she exposes everything, while she tells me deep personal secrets and expects me to keep them safe. I do, because I’d never stoop that low. Maybe I’m not asking for too much. Maybe I just trusted the wrong person.