help i need advice so basically one of my friends is a they them and has a girlfriend but i still txt them like good morning and good night and shit like that but idk if im overstepping but they didnt tell me til like a wk ago and i do that shit cus im scared they gonna kts cus they have attempted before... and im hella scared... but like im a hypocrite cus i nearly attempted for the past like 10 days and i wanna tell them but i feel like a burden