nobody likes quiet guys. if you're a quiet girl, it's cute, but if you're a quiet guy all the girls don't want you. i try really hard to look good, go to the gym, and have several hobbies, but none of it matters. at parties or any type of social event i am absolutely dominated in conversation. i'm never gonna be that life of the party guy or even someone contributing to the vibe. sometimes i am scared that no matter how much i work on myself, i will end up alone because i'm so socially anxious around strangers