i really don't know. my bf is great but he's so less affectionate compared to me that it sometimes bothers me. like i know it doesn't really matter, but he will rarely be affectionate with me. maybe like 10% of the time, and i feel bad for wanting to be affectionate i guess. and i know it has a lot to do with his childhood, but it makes me kind of sad. then i let it pass, and then it feel bad again, but idk how to talk to him about it cause i feel like i cant cause i dont want him to feel bad. idk and we just had an anniversary and idk he said we weren't going to do much for it and to not buy him anything and i didn't., just made him a card but bought our dinner., .idk just wanted to get it out., i appreciate him but i want more emotional vulnerability i guess.